Ending a friendship

Sometimes a friendship takes more than it gives. You can end a friendship, or see each other less, in a respectful way.

You will need

• A clear decision
• Courage

Steps

1. Think about why

   Is the friendship hurtful, or has it just faded naturally? The reason affects how you go about it.

2. Consider distance

3. Be honest if needed

4. Avoid blame

5. Hold your boundaries

6. Allow yourself to grieve

7. Stay civil in shared settings

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