Talking to children about difficult things
Children sense adults' worries even when nobody talks about them. An honest conversation at the child's level increases their sense of security. This guide gives you a framework for bringing up a difficult subject and dealing with it together.
You will need
- A calm moment without rushing
- A clear idea of what you will tell and what not yet
- Support from another adult, if possible
- A book, drawing materials or a game with a younger child
Steps
Prepare yourself
Deal with your own feelings first with another adult. It is easier for the child when the adult can speak calmly, even if they are sad.
Choose the time and place
First ask what the child knows
Tell it briefly and truthfully
Say what stays the same
Allow all feelings
Come back to the subject
Seek support if needed
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