Having a difficult conversation with someone close

It is best to bring up difficult things with people close to you calmly and while listening. Preparing helps you say things clearly and gently.

You will need

• A calm moment
• Your thoughts on paper

Steps

1. Think about your goal

   What do you want to achieve with the conversation?

2. Choose the moment

3. Start with an I-statement

4. Listen

5. Stick to the point

6. Find a solution together

7. Come back to it

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