Breaking up respectfully

Breaking up is a difficult decision. Ending things respectfully reduces the pain for both of you and makes the practical arrangements easier.

You will need

• A calm moment
• A plan for housing and belongings

Steps

1. Be sure of your decision

   Consider whether you are certain about the break-up, and talk to a professional first if needed.

2. Tell them face to face

3. Be clear and kind

4. Agree on practicalities

5. Handle the children's matters together

6. Keep your distance

7. Get support for yourself

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